It was 8:30 a.m. on a frigid winter’s day. The four cranky kids, who woke up an hour earlier than normal, were packed into our family minivan and eating breakfast on the way to a church that was several hours away. Our snarky 12-year-old, Josiah, shouted to us from the backseat, “Why do we have to go to another church? Can’t we just stay home and relax?”
Let me share a little of the backstory. Sarah and I (David) moved to Indiana six years ago and were so excited to be part of the Midwest Region of the Brethren Church. I had spent a good portion of my life at Oasis Community Church in Gilbert, Arizona, where the closest (and only) nearby Brethren Churches were over two hours away in Tucson. Despite the distance, our three Arizona churches always saw each other as family. We gathered in the summer for church camp near the Mexican border and held a joint church service once a year in addition to other
trips down to Tucson to see these friends.
When we moved to Indiana, we could not believe our good fortune that there were over 30 Brethren churches in our region! A plan started to form that we now jokingly refer to as “The Brethren Tour.” It started with a strong desire to befriend the Brethren (our people!) and connect with Brethren leaders across the region. So, the scene of packing up the minivan early on a Sunday morning has become a normal one for our kids. We are on a mission to visit every Brethren Church in our region and make as many friends along the way as we can.
You might be wondering, as we were at the start, what we would discover on our travels. I am pleased to inform you that God is on the move! Here is just a glimpse of the incredible things He is up to throughout the Brethren communities that we have visited in the past few years.
Huntington First Brethren welcomed us with open arms as we started our tour with the church closest to us. They later hosted a church planting and church renewal gathering led by the Midwest New/Renew team, and 10 Brethren Churches were represented. We were really getting some traction on our goal to befriend Brethren at this point! It was at that event that I first met Cole Westwood, a fellow Army Veteran and pastor of Corinth Brethren Church.
With that connection, we headed north to Corinth Brethren Church one sunny Sunday morning. We got to hear the testimony of Grace who had spent the summer as a counselor at The Brethren Retreat at Shipshewana, someone we’ve continued a friendship with since.
Not too long after I started to meet with the Midwest New/Renew team monthly to talk about church planting and church revitalization, a fellow team member, Fred Youngen, and his church, FBC South Bend, hosted an incredible prayer meeting where Brethren from all over came to pray together and worship God. A very interesting side note: FBC South Bend owns the website that 90% of the churches in our denomination are currently in repentance for coveting their neighbor’s digital property: FirstBrethren.org. Funny enough, we have also met several
people along the way who think the official name of our denomination is “First Brethren.”
Next, I received an invitation to preach at my good friend Cory Smith’s church, Goshen FBC on Veterans Day. I showed up in my Air Force dress blue uniform and shared about the incredible love Jesus has for military members and veterans, as seen in His interaction with the Centurion in Matthew 8. This started a tradition of sorts, and for the past three years, different churches have invited me to preach on Veterans Day weekend, including Warsaw First Brethren (such loving people!) and College Corner Brethren, who have become our good friends. College Corner has invited our family to join them a number of times for worship, and they are such an encouraging and friendly group of people. Before we ever visited this church (that is nowhere near the corner of a college), I had met and become quick friends with Duane and Bonnie Truss who were volunteers at the VA where I work full-time as a Chaplain. They spoke so highly of their church, College Corner, that I knew we had to visit.
Continuing the Brethren tour, we crashed the Sunday morning service at North Manchester FBC. Even though we were ten minutes late, Linda Immel (who would eventually become another good friend) greeted us at the door and made us feel right at home. We loved seeing so many young people gathered together in worship in this congregation and were blessed to be invited over to lunch afterward by Kurt and Heidi Stout, who showed us the mini-farm in their backyard. Since this first encounter, I have grown to love Kurt’s heart for God’s people and his creative ideas for growing the Kingdom.
Somewhere along the way, we saw in the regional newsletter that David Loi was going to be guest preaching at Muncie FBC. We jumped at the chance to join our nearby Brethren for this opportunity of a lifetime! I am filled with joy to report that we were not disappointed. David Loi shared his heart for his two children and our Heavenly Father in such a powerful way, that I was brought to tears. In addition to that, we were blown away by the worship team at Muncie FBC! Because of this, Sarah later suggested to the Big Event planning team that this worship team be invited to lead the Saturday night worship at The Big Event last August. I pray those of you who joined us for The Big Event were as blessed as we were to have them lead us into the presence of God!
By this time, people were starting to notice that the Millers were popping up all over the place like that speedy animal in the Whack A Mole game. Our friends Lee and Stephanie Compson were on to us and invited us to Milford FBC. While there, Lee let us share with their congregation what God has been up to at Unchurch, the house church that Sarah and I co-pastor in Marion. To our daughter Kloey’s delight, they sang her favorite song, Sanctuary. After worship, I got to meet a very friendly fellow military veteran who has been an integral part of the church’s Gatherer-Shepherd-Elder church revitalization team.
In addition to visiting these great churches across the state of Indiana (Illinois, we haven’t forgotten you!), Sarah and I had the opportunity to lead the teen week with Camp Shipshewana called Blaze Camp. We had over 40 kids in attendance from all over the region. We have already had fun seeing some of these teens at different churches we have visited and even a few at Brethren Conference. One of the highlights of the week of conference in Grand Rapids, Michigan was the dinner with the Midwest region on the last night. We ended up sitting at a table with Larry and Bev Baker, who are so full of God’s love and joy that we could not help but become good friends with them. Larry actually turned the tables on me a couple of months ago and attended a service I was leading at the VA hospital.
As you might imagine, The Big Event was a dream come true for our family. With all those Brethren in one place, we didn’t know what to do with ourselves. Sarah was on the planning team and had asked me to emcee the Saturday evening service. I absolutely loved hearing the stories that evening of what God has been up to around the region and the world (thanks to Latha Kumar). It was also wonderful to spend more time with the friends we had made on our travels and build new friendships. Sarah and I hope to see many of you there again next August.
Though we have made some headway in The Brethren Tour, we are far from done. We may move a little slower and with more chaos having four kids in tow, but that is part of the fun. Here is the cool part: if you are in the Midwest Region, you could be our next stop. If you want to invite us to your church, reach out to Sarah and me at DSMiller1@gmail.com. Here is a tip: If you have us over for lunch after your church service, you get bumped up in line. For those across the nation (and world), try visiting a nearby Brethren Church and make some new friends. Hope to see you soon!
David Miller, Pastor
UnChurch
Marion, Indiana